Therapeutic Specialties
Therapy for Trauma and Complex PTSD (C-PTSD) in Milford, Massachusetts. In person & Virtual.
When the wound isn't a single moment but a pattern- of neglect, instability, or never quite feeling safe or seen.
Women are twice as likely as men to develop PTSD or complex trauma responses following adverse experiences.
This is not because we're weak or fragile, but because the trauma women most commonly carry is the kind that doesn't resolve quickly or cleanly — sexual violence, relational harm, childhood neglect, chronic instability, a body or a birth that never felt safe. What connects all of it isn't the specific story. It's that the experience repeated, or lingered, or never had a clear moment of "it's over."
If you're reading this, you likely know this in your bones.
No matter how much time has passed or how much therapy you’ve done, you still shut down, get flooded, or find yourself back in a familiar place you thought you'd already worked through.
You understand your patterns. And yet, something still feels stuck.
Sometimes the most lasting harm comes not from one moment, but from many accumulated wounds.
Complex trauma often develops over time through patterns of relationship, environment, or experience that left your nervous system without a safe place to land. It doesn't require a single dramatic event, and it doesn't require a story of abuse to be real. What matters most is whether an experience repeated, and whether you had a safe person or a way out while it was happening. This can include:
Childhood abuse or emotional neglect
Abandonment, betrayal, or unstable attachment
Sexual trauma
Growing up with immature, narcissistic, or unavailable parents
Chronic stress or a chaotic home environment
Financial hardship, housing insecurity, or frequent upheaval
Persistent feelings of being unloved or not enough
When these experiences aren't fully processed, the body develops its own ways of coping. The strategies that once helped you survive now keep you from feeling fully alive.
Just getting by was never meant to be the destination. There is another way.
While those strategies helped you survive, they now come at a cost:
Feeling stuck in survival mode even when life looks okay on the outside
Difficulty with relationships — including the one you have with yourself
Trouble experiencing joy, ease, or pleasure
Setting boundaries that feel impossible to hold without guilt
Being "high-functioning" while quietly feeling burnt out, empty, or disconnected
Life that feels like you’re just “getting by” rather than truly living
Physical health ailments with no clear explanation
Strategies your body learned to protect you:
Dissociation
Perfectionism
People-Pleasing
A Harsh Inner Critic
Anxiety & Over-thinking
Co-dependency
Hyper-independence
Depression
Fatigue
Physical health symptoms
Recovery from complex trauma is possible — and it happens in the body.
Imagine a life where you are more present, responsive rather than reactionary, and where you feel at home in your relationship with others and with yourself.
The life you desire is within reach.
In our somatic trauma therapy work together, we take all the time we need to establish a strong foundation of safety and ease. Only then do we begin to explore what feels activating and always in a pace that is manageable for your nervous system- often, slower is better.
The goal isn't just symptom relief. It's about creating a fulfilling life you don’t need to run from.
Have questions about working together?
I look forward to connecting and discovering together what is possible for you!
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Complex PTSD Frequently Asked Questions
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Yes. PTSD often develops from a single traumatic event. Complex PTSD develops from trauma that repeated over time — usually in childhood, and usually within a relationship where you depended on the person who hurt you. That relational piece changes everything: it's not just what happened to you, it's that it happened inside the very bond that was supposed to keep you safe. C-PTSD tends to carry additional layers beyond classic PTSD symptoms — chronic shame, a harsh inner critic, trouble with emotional regulation, and patterns in relationships that repeat no matter how much insight you have.
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Yes. Childhood abuse and neglect are common paths to Complex PTSD, but they're not the only ones. What actually defines complex trauma isn't the specific story — it's whether an experience was prolonged or repeated, and whether you had little or no way to escape it or get help while it was happening. That opens the door much wider than people expect. Birth trauma, difficult NICU stays, chronic or life-threatening illness, repeated medical procedures, growing up in poverty or housing instability, immigration or displacement, and even prolonged caregiver burnout can all leave a nervous system in the same place: stuck in survival mode long after the danger has passed. If you've read about C-PTSD and thought "that's not really my story" while still recognizing every symptom in yourself, it's worth considering that your body may be telling you something your history doesn't fit into a familiar box.
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Because insight and body regulation are two different things. You can understand your patterns completely — why you shut down, why you people-please, why you can't trust — and still find your nervous system responding the same way anyway. That's not a failure of willpower or a sign you're doing therapy wrong. Complex trauma gets held in the nervous system, not just in your thoughts, so talking about it doesn't always change how your body responds to it. Somatic therapy works directly with the nervous system, alongside the cognitive insight, so change can happen at both levels.
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This work is often gentler and slower than people often expect. We're not diving right into your worst memories in the first session, or ever, before your system is ready. Early sessions are about building safety and learning to notice what's happening in your body — often the first skill, since C-PTSD can make it hard to feel your body at all, or make certain sensations feel unbearable. As you share your story, we’re continuously checking back in to notice what your experiencing internally, in the present. From there we learn to be with the activation bit by bit, moving at the pace your nervous system can actually integrate.
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There's no universal timeline, and I'd be cautious of anyone who promises one. What I can tell you is that C-PTSD recovery isn't usually linear — it's not "fixed" in a set number of sessions so much as it's a process of your nervous system gradually learning it's safe to come out of survival mode. Some people notice shifts in weeks; deeper relational and identity-level change tends to unfold over months. We'll check in regularly about what's shifting for you.
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No. This is one of the most common fears people bring in, and one of the biggest differences between somatic work and traditional talk or exposure therapy. Somatic Experiencing doesn't require a full retelling of what happened. We work with what's present in your body right now — the activation, the bracing, the shutdown — without needing you to relive the story to process it. If and when you feel ready to explore your story in more detail, I’m ready to go there with you.
Therapy for Complex PTSD That Meets You Where You Are
Therapy sessions are available in person in Milford, Massachusetts.
Online therapy is available for clients anywhere in Massachusetts. For those nearby, we can also create a hybrid schedule that blends in-person and virtual sessions to best support your lifestyle and needs.